Wednesday, May 6, 2009

bubbles and bandaids

Lili Kate slept good last night...still coughed but was better. When we got up this morning she was again, very lethargic and running a fever. Our guide, David who is so awesome, came to the hotel and he and I took Lili back to the hospital to have her rechecked. We all just needed the reassurance that we are just dealing with a childhood illness and nothing severe. They did some bloodwork and on her and checked her lungs and heart and once again, sent us away with some herbal treatments. She did seem a little better today. She ate breakfast and lunch but is still sleeping alot. I am hoping that she will feel better tomorrow. Keep her in your prayers. She is a little weak so I think its harder on her than it would be another child.

Meanwhile, JT and BG stayed behind at the hotel and took a break from hotel rooms, taxi rides, hospital visits and airports to give BG some time to run and play. So off they went to blow some bubbles. She ran and played until she just couldn't anymore. They came back to the room and JT turned to find BG had already crawled into bed for a nap. She was worn out! Fun time together for Dad and BG!

I will update again later...miss you guys alot! Can't wait to get Lili-Kate back to the States to meet her family and friends! Hugs!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Adoption day in the hospital
















We put Lili Kate down last night around ten and she coughed all night long. We finally tried to wake her this morning around seven so we could get some breakfast. She was completely lethargic and wouldn't eat or drink anything. It was obvious something was wrong. We were scheduled to be back at the Civil Affairs Office at nine so off we went but Lili Kate was not well at all. She couldn't hold up her head and she was completely listless. By the time we got to our appointment it was obvious she needed to see a doctor. After finalizing the adoption we made our way to the hospital in Nanning. She was checked by medical personnel that quickly determined that she had "childhood fever". I have seen many sick children but I have never seen one as sick as Lili Kate. They sent her to have an IV drip of antibiotic, fever reducer, and some herbal medicines. We were there for a few hours. We returned back to the hotel and I put her down in her crib. Within an hour she was up playing and eating and drinking. Major milestone from earlier. She has spent the rest of the day in a much better state. We were able to get out briefly and get some dinner. It was a much better evening than morning. We also found out today from the orphanage director that they expect she will need heart surgery. We knew there was always the possibility that her heart condition could be worse than we knew and I guess we won't really know until we get her back to the States and have her checked out by a pediatric cardiologist. She is the sweetest little thing! We wanted to give her some tylenol today but when we were to determine her dosage we realized she needed the infant instead. She is only 17 lbs. She is in a size small diaper and in 12 month clothing. She is a tiny little angel. She continues to need your prayers. They want her back at the hospital in the morning if she spikes another fever. I am wanting a healing...a miracle for her! God sent us here for her and now we need to put our faith out there to get her home! God has given us a gift adding her to our family! We are very blessed and honored to call her our daughter! Thank you to all of you that are praying for her and us! We have needed them today!

Monday, May 4, 2009

We need your prayers!
















Lili-Kate has spent most of the night coughing like crazy. She is running a fever and we are having a hard time getting her to eat or drink. I know she doesn't feel well at all and if I had to guess she probably at least has an ear infection. She was taken to the hospital friday and the doctor's report says she had high fever and cough. But my concern is that she is still running a fever. They are treating her with chinese medicine and no antibiotic. We are to return to the Civil Affair's Office this morning at 9 to finalize the adoption. Our guide told us that we can take her to the clinic again if we needed to. Please pray for her. She is so tiny and so frail. She needs to be healed. She is so precious and has such a sweet little spirit about her. We adore her already.





Introducing Lili-Kate!!!!!!!!
















We made it to the Civil Affairs Office and right away met Lili-Kate. She was crying and very upset for about 20 minutes and then she just calmed down and has played and laughed ever since. She is quite sick though. We were told that she was taken to the hospital on Friday with a high fever and cough. She is still sweet though despite how bad she must feel. Please pray for her speedy recovery. BG and Lili have already started bonding. They play very well together. Here are some photos of our first day together.





Sunday, May 3, 2009

Today is the day!

We are up already...at 4 a.m. and so excited to finally meet our Lili-Kate. We were able to talk with our guide last night that gave us some very valuable information. He took us to this fascinating outdoor chinese restaurant. The food was delicious and the best meal we have had since we arrived. We walked back to the hotel and I was amazed at how beautiful the city of Nanning is. It is tropical and it smells wonderful when you are walking down the street. When we were leaving the hotel we met another adoptive family arriving who will also be meeting their new daughter today at the same time as we do. They are from Illinois and very sweet.

Please continue to pray for us. We are anxious, excited, nervous...but know God is in this whole thing! We decided to ask our guide here to translate Lili's chinese name for us. We had already asked our guide in Beijing but thought we would see if we got the same interpretation. He said that Yi Ci means "a beautiful gift from God". Wow! I guess words can't really express at all what we are really feeling. Pray for divine favor with our new baby girl. Pray for her foster family. Pray for our children. Thanks to all of you who have sent words of encouragement and support. It really means so much to us!

more pics...

Here are some more pics of our trip to New Day. Just wanted to share...






















































some pics in china
















Saturday, May 2, 2009

We are in Nanning

We started our day Saturday with breakfast and a trip to Tianamen Square. Then we said goodbye to Beijing. We boarded a plane and endured a three and a half hour turbulent flight to Nanning. I say endured because it was the scariest turbulence I have ever flown through. We made it safe and sound to Nanning where we met our new guide, David. We are staying at a hotel that the internet is really slow unless you are on really early in the morning or in the middle of the night. We are unable to load any pictures right now because we need the appropriate adapter. As soon as we get that adapter, we will post.

We will be making our first walmart trip this morning (sunday morning for us...saturday night for you). David told us that we will be meeting Lili-Kate Monday afternoon at 3 pm. So for you guys at home, by lunchtime on Monday we hope to have some pics for you to see of her. We are very anxious and excited. We know that she is with a foster family that will be saying goodbye to her so pray for that family as this is probably going to be very hard for them.

Nanning is a beautiful city. The people speak mostly cantonese and hardly any english at all. So we wished we had learned at least some cantonese. Our guide says he will teach us some basics to communicate with Lili-Kate. Well, I will post more later once we get our pics uploaded. We miss you guys! See you soon!

Friday, May 1, 2009

Visit to the Great Wall and Hutong




































Sorry for the delay in posting but when we got back to the hotel and I downloaded all my pics to the computer, suddenly it decided to shut down on its own and lost all my photos. It took Jeff a while to find them and by that time I was long gone into a world of deep sleep. It was a full day. We started with a very long journey to the Great Wall. Traffic was horrendous due to the fact that it is a holiday for the chinese people. Needless to say there were lots of visitors to the Great Wall. It was fascinating! Probably the most incredible thing I have ever seen. JT said he felt like he was carrying Elvis around because people would stop and ask to take pictures with BG. We talked to our guide, John, who said many of the visitors here have probably never seen a foreigner. They think little American children are cute! The crowd was enormous. John said there are always lots of visitors but today was significant because it was holiday for them. So unfortunately we were unable to cartwheel across the wall as we had planned but we did hike it! Whew!



After the wall, we ate lunch and went to Hutong. We were given a ride on a bicycle cart through Hutong. It was an awesome thing to see also. The culture here is so different from America...or anywhere else for that matter. It was fascinating! A very sweet chinese lady allowed us to come into her home and see how the chinese people live. She was very hospitable and warm! Of course by this time BG is passed out. She missed the entire trip to Hutong. It is so funny but we are still not adjusted to the time. We are still waking up around midnight. BG is so funny...when we come in after being out for the day we look for her and find her in her bed under the covers. For those of you that know BG...that just ain't like her! :) She is one tired baby but definitely a pleasant one! Today we will fly to Nanning where in just a couple of days we will meet our sweet Lili-Kate! Please continue to pray for us and LK. This is an exciting time for us but may be a little scary to her! We have dreamed of having her in our family but chances are she doesn't know or understand what is about to happen. I know God will be with us and her through the transition but your prayers are coveted! I wanted to share this pic of a gentleman driving down the road on a bicycle loaded down with logs. This is just one of the interesting things you see while riding down the road. The road here is shared with not only cars, vans and trucks but also bicycles of all kinds. Love to you all...post again soon...

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Our visit to New Day




















Well our morning started at midnight when BG decided it was time to get up! We finally coerced her back to sleep around 3:30 am and got back up around 6:15 am. We had breakfast at the restaurant in our hotel and it was really good. We got in touch with our friend that works at a foster home and arranged a visit. Our trip to New Day was wonderful! BG made her a friend right off the bat! What a sweetie!
















We were able to visit with the children and all of them are so precious. Seeing them was very touching for me. They each wait patiently for a forever family! We also got to see the village near New Day and had lunch with our friend and the children. We were both very blessed to have visited. How wonderful the work they are doing for the orphans of China!

Despite the jet lag it has been a wonderful day. The drive to New Day was about an hour long so it was an interesting drive there and back. Bicycles, trucks, cars all share the road...all merging into traffic and beeping the horn at each other. Whew! Tomorrow we will visit the Great Wall and Hutong. Hopefully we will have time to visit Tianamen Square. BG is so tired this afternoon after our visit to New Day that she is passed out. She has been an angel through it all!